WAIT JUST A DAMN MINUTE
I’ve been hearing and reading rumblings a lot lately that writers and readers alike are sick of writing and reading books that contain so called ideal heroes and heroines. Protagonists who approach perfection.
Is that true?
The point of this argument is that so few of us are like the people in these […]

On the sea they’re euphemistically called intimate or clothing optional cruises and one even boldly named theirs, Swinger’s Cruise. On land they’re called, adult or erotic resorts. A few are for swingers but most of the organized adult resorts cater to men.

A small few cater to homosexuals, both male and female. One claims to be […]

Bi-Curious
Have you ever heard the term Bi-Curious? Do you know what it means?
I have come across this term three or four times in the last few weeks. I all cases it referred to women but I suppose men could be bi-curious as well.
I found the following discussion involving Bi-curiosity on the internet and decided to […]

Yes ladies, the famous, or is it infamous Hollywood Madame, Heidi Fleiss, has been threatening to open a male, ladies only, whorehouse, called The Stud Farm, in an existing brothel in Lincoln County, Nevada, about eighty miles north of Las Vegas, where prostitution is legal.
I’ll admit I am dubious about the viability of […]

As a follow on from my last blog I thought I’d discuss Internet Dating again. Okay - I know I slated it last time. And with good reason!! It’s imperfect at the best of times, and downright crap at the worst. But for once I’m having fun with it  - mainly because I’ve had a […]

I have formulated a scientific hypothesis. Put on your thinking caps and don’t doze off, because after the academic stuff I’ll be talking about boobs.
One day I was watching Allan Gregg in Conversation on TVO. Psychiatrist and Medical Researcher Norman Doidge spoke on neural plasticity in relation to memory, stroke, Alzheimer’s, etc. and […]

An ongoing discussion within the erotic writing and reading community is to define the difference between erotic literature and pornographic literature and when does erotic writing become pornographic. There’s a similar discussion going on with romance writers and readers of when does romance become erotic. Since I don’t read or write straight romance, I won’t […]

I have a strong sense of smell. Sometimes I notice a smell that triggers something in the reptilian area of my brain, and I’ll remember an event from my childhood that I hadn’t thought about in years. For instance, recently smelling low tide near my home brought back a memory of the time I was […]

This article originally appeared on the British e-zine Nuts4chic, where I am the sex columnist. Since my new book Summer Heat: Steaming Stories For A Hot Summer Afternoon will be released very soon, it’s only fitting that I talk about the theme of one of my stories. “The Wandering Kat” is about an older woman […]

Have I ever mentioned how much I love the oldie-baldies?  I do.  I love those physically fit bald men in the 50-65 age group.  What can I say?  I’m a grave robber (the opposite of a cradle robber…?)
And what’s not to love? Bald is the new leather.  I love those shiny crowns, I love that […]