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Love…exciting and new…

» by Willsin Rowe February 21st, 2010 at 8:57 am » Comments (5)

So...is it just me, or do you all keep falling in love all over the place? Maybe workmates, maybe friends, maybe someone you walk past every day or even just ...more »

What Converted this Valentine’s Day Resistor?

» by Giselle Renarde February 14th, 2010 at 1:09 pm » Comments (3)

I used to be as strong a V-Day resistor as I was a radical feminist. I thought it was a cruel pseudo-holiday (no, no, no…I didn’t say “cool super-holiday”) created ...more »

Please XXplain…

» by Willsin Rowe January 24th, 2010 at 9:58 am » Comments (2)

Over the past few years I’ve seen many calls for submission for works of both erotica and erotic romance. What has caught my eye lately has been the apparent increase ...more »

The End is Near. Do it Now!

» by Giselle Renarde December 6th, 2009 at 1:58 am » Comments (0)

No, not the end of the world. The end of my "Support LGBT Youth" promotion. If you've managed not to hear about it yet, I'm giving all profits from ...more »

Transgender Day of Remembrance

» by Giselle Renarde November 22nd, 2009 at 2:09 am » Comments (0)

Must remember. Can't forget. Must remember. Can't forget.As Transgender Awareness Week (November 15th-20th) recently drew to a close, we observed the 11th annual Transgender Day of Remembrance on November 20th, ...more »

Why my Girlfriend Won’t Wear an Apron or Am I a Female Chauvinist Pig?

» by Giselle Renarde November 8th, 2009 at 8:34 pm » Comments (0)

Why my Girlfriend Won’t Wear an Apron or Am I a Female Chauvinist Pig? My Sweet and I are recovering from another little spat. I’m doing a bit of warehouse contract work ...more »

ORGASMS! To Know Them is to Love Them

» by Dee Dawning November 2nd, 2009 at 3:19 pm » Comments (8)

Orgasm. I love that word. You should too. After all it feels fantastic. Doesn’t it? What do we know about orgasms? Not a lot. We know it makes us feel ...more »

Lesbian Vampire Knife Play, Anyone?

» by Giselle Renarde October 25th, 2009 at 1:13 am » Comments (3)

Hi Kittens! Oysters & Chocolate recently held a contest called "Vampire Lust."  Guess what?  My F/F story "Blood Lust" received an Honorable Mention!  Pretty good, considering I'd never written anything vampire-related ...more »

I wanna be just like her

» by Emma Hillman October 6th, 2009 at 5:33 am » Comments (0)

I have a crush and no, it's not even a tall, dark-haired, green-eyed man for once. It's another author. I love, love, love Kristan Higgins' books. They're everything I'd like mine to ...more »

ARE MENAGE ROMANCES HERE TO STAY?

» by Dee Dawning October 5th, 2009 at 8:28 am » Comments (2)

I posted this article on another blog last month and it was very popular so here it is again? Are Ménage Romances Books Here to Stay The latest hot genre in erotic ...more »

From Where You Are…

» by Amber Dixon September 28th, 2009 at 2:28 pm » Comments (0)

Hello, hello! I thought for today's blog post, I'd share my first attempt at some poetry (I'm not a morbid romantic - honest!). So, here goes.... * * * *   From Where ...more »

My Sexy Meeting with Diana Ross

» by Dee Dawning September 7th, 2009 at 7:35 am » Comments (8)

It's the ninth of the month, my day to blog and I don't have a thing ready. I know. I'll write about the time I met Diana Ross. You ...more »

ROMANCE NOVELS AND YOUR SEX DRIVE

» by Dee Dawning August 3rd, 2009 at 6:48 am » Comments (0)

Today I’m going to talk about one of my favorite subjects—SEX! And what should be one of your favorite subjects—your SEX life! Do you consider your sex life normal? What is ...more »

I’m the Nut

» by Giselle Renarde July 19th, 2009 at 11:42 am » Comments (1)

The other day, a girl I work with mentioned that she likes her boys a little girly. “Why don’t you just date girls, then?” I asked her, very nearly following it ...more »

A Fisting Good Time!

» by Giselle Renarde June 21st, 2009 at 5:29 pm » Comments (0)

I never thought we’d make it to the knuckles. But, then again, I never thought we’d try. I made the mistake of letting my girlfriend Sweet read a fisting story I wrote ...more »

Free read – Her Seduction

» by Emma Hillman June 2nd, 2009 at 8:33 am » Comments (2)

So it's Tuesday again and I'm at work, having just remembered I'm supposed to write a blog today. Oops! Although I spent the past three days at home with my ...more »

Paging Dr Jung

» by Giselle Renarde May 24th, 2009 at 5:32 pm » Comments (2)

If you are fluent in the language of Jungian psychology, you will recognize the term “animus complex.”  It’s a fascinating enough theory that I will take a moment to explain ...more »

Blind Date – Free read

» by Emma Hillman May 9th, 2009 at 10:15 am » Comments (0)

Hi there, As you're reading this, I'm away on holidays (the good thing of living in France: multiple bank holiday weekends!). I hope you enjoy this short story I wrote a ...more »

Are women becoming more promiscuous?

» by Dee Dawning May 4th, 2009 at 6:51 am » Comments (0)

Promiscuity in women Is the age of promiscuity in women upon us? Articles I’ve read recently indicate a shift in women’s values may be taking place allowing for more freedom of ...more »

Over Forty and Over Men?

» by Dee Dawning April 6th, 2009 at 9:09 am » Comments (9)

Okay, Some of you may find this blog boring, however I find it infinitely interesting. Is their latent homosexuality in many straight women? I don’t know. It looks like there ...more »

Spring Fever

» by Giselle Renarde March 29th, 2009 at 12:50 am » Comments (0)

Just in time for the change in seasons, eXcessica has a new anthology on the market.  Four Seasons: Spring 2009 is a compilation of erotic tales from some of your ...more »

Thoughts on Transgender Fiction

» by Giselle Renarde March 15th, 2009 at 12:16 am » Comments (1)

Anyone who follows my blog is certainly familiar with my connection to the transgender community. You've probably been wondering, "Why doesn't Giselle have any TG work on the market?" ...more »

Vaginal Fisting—Turn On or Turn Off?

» by Dee Dawning March 2nd, 2009 at 6:43 am » Comments (14)

Vaginal Fisting - Turn On or Turn Off As a writer, I’m always looking for new and sometimes exotic things to write about in my stories. Vaginal fisting is such ...more »

Sweets for my Sweet

» by Giselle Renarde February 15th, 2009 at 1:36 am » Comments (0)

What to buy, what to buy, what to buy for your Valentine? Nothing! Anyone who followed my blog posts around the holiday season knows I prefer making gifts to buying them. ...more »

Are Women Feeling Sexier Than Ever and Doing Something About it?

» by Dee Dawning January 30th, 2009 at 7:57 am » Comments (3)

As a male author of numerous erotic and erotic romance books, I keep a lookout for interesting articles about women’s and to a lesser degree, men’s sexuality. Today, I’m ...more »

Meeting the Parents

» by Giselle Renarde December 21st, 2008 at 7:52 pm » Comments (0)

Today I met my girlfriend’s mom. For all the anxiety this first meeting generated, it turned into a pretty anti-climactic event.  It helped—or…didn’t help?—that Sweet’s family doesn’t know she’s transsexual.  To ...more »

Anal Sex and Double Penetration

» by Dee Dawning December 19th, 2008 at 7:32 am » Comments (5)

Anal Sex and Double Penetration In November I blogged about the popularity of menage a trios’. No, not about the act itself, but about the popularity of the act in ...more »

Gifts from the Heart and the Hands

» by Giselle Renarde December 7th, 2008 at 8:58 pm » Comments (0)

My girlfriend Sweet is a Christmas FANATIC, so I knew I couldn't give her just any old greeting card as we celebrate our first Christmas together. It's not that ...more »

Menage. Is this your fantasy?

» by Dee Dawning December 5th, 2008 at 9:16 am » Comments (6)

The ménage a trois has been the subject of previous blogs here, but considering it is the hottest thing in erotic writing today, I'm going to talk about it. ...more »

The ‘C’ word (not clitoris) for writers and readers.

» by Dee Dawning November 21st, 2008 at 8:18 am » Comments (29)

I want to hear from all of you on this. Since eXcessica is known for tackling Taboo issues head on, I want to tackle a taboo word, CUNT! Is it ...more »

poverotica

» by Giselle Renarde October 26th, 2008 at 6:48 pm » Comments (0)

poverotica /pawvirottikaw/ (n) literature or art lending erotic qualities to the state of being extremely poor. As you might have guessed, there’s no such thing as poverotica.  It’s a new addition ...more »

‘WHENEVER I WANT YOU, ALL I HAVE TO DO IS DREAM’

» by Dee Dawning October 24th, 2008 at 10:00 am » Comments (0)

I'm sure that many if not most of you are not familiar with the lyrics I used from am old 1950's Everly Brothers song for my title, but it sure ...more »

WAIT JUST A DAMN MINUTE

» by Dee Dawning October 10th, 2008 at 7:13 am » Comments (2)

WAIT JUST A DAMN MINUTE I’ve been hearing and reading rumblings a lot lately that writers and readers alike are sick of writing and reading books that contain so called ideal ...more »

Losing Friends

» by Giselle Renarde September 28th, 2008 at 11:11 pm » Comments (0)

My friend Monty is old and set in his ways, but that’s no excuse. For many years now, my friend Monty has been my comrade and confidant, but ever since I ...more »

Searching For the Big Bamboo

» by Dee Dawning September 26th, 2008 at 8:06 am » Comments (0)

On the sea they’re euphemistically called intimate or clothing optional cruises and one even boldly named theirs, Swinger’s Cruise. On land they’re called, adult or erotic resorts. A few are ...more »

ARE YOU BI-CURIOUS?

» by Dee Dawning September 12th, 2008 at 3:23 pm » Comments (6)

Bi-Curious Have you ever heard the term Bi-Curious? Do you know what it means? I have come across this term three or four times in the last few weeks. I all cases ...more »

Shame

» by dr_mabeuse September 10th, 2008 at 10:37 am » Comments (0)

Shame is the great, undiscussed dimension in erotic literature. It's the quality of shame that makes sex dirty, that separates medical illustrations from graphic porn, that's the difference between the ...more »

Internet Dating – the sequel!

» by Rachelle LeMonnier September 3rd, 2008 at 11:09 am » Comments (0)

As a follow on from my last blog I thought I’d discuss Internet Dating again. Okay - I know I slated it last time. And with good reason!! It’s imperfect ...more »

These are Real: Practical Applications of Recent Discoveries in Neural Plasticity

» by Giselle Renarde August 31st, 2008 at 10:30 am » Comments (0)

I have formulated a scientific hypothesis. Put on your thinking caps and don’t doze off, because after the academic stuff I’ll be talking about boobs. One day I was watching ...more »

Is it Erotic or is it Pornographic

» by Dee Dawning August 28th, 2008 at 4:20 pm » Comments (8)

An ongoing discussion within the erotic writing and reading community is to define the difference between erotic literature and pornographic literature and when does erotic writing become pornographic. There's a ...more »

The Smell Of Sex

» by Elizabeth Black August 26th, 2008 at 3:09 pm » Comments (2)

I have a strong sense of smell. Sometimes I notice a smell that triggers something in the reptilian area of my brain, and I'll remember an event from my childhood ...more »

Love: Foolishness or Delusion?

» by Vernon Welles August 6th, 2008 at 7:51 pm » Comments (2)

Do you remember your first love? That giddy nervousness, the overwhelming desire to be with that person constantly, the nagging doubts that this was a fluke and could end any ...more »

The Alluring Older Woman: The Appeal Of The Cougar

» by Elizabeth Black July 29th, 2008 at 11:03 am » Comments (0)

This article originally appeared on the British e-zine Nuts4chic, where I am the sex columnist. Since my new book Summer Heat: Steaming Stories For A Hot Summer Afternoon will be ...more »

Review: Swingtown

» by Elizabeth Black July 15th, 2008 at 10:10 am » Comments (2)

When I saw the commercials about "Swingtown", I knew I had to see it. The Washington Post has covered the show. The show is set in an American suburb in ...more »

Lost

» by Varian Krylov July 10th, 2008 at 12:33 am » Comments (1)

I don't usually write incest. It's not that I have any big qualms about the genre, it's just that incest isn't one of the kinks I'm wired for—maybe because I'm a ...more »

And Here’s to You, Mrs. Robinson

» by Varian Krylov June 24th, 2008 at 5:15 pm » Comments (2)

The Illusionist. The Heartbreak Kid. The Band's Visit. Sideways. You, Me and Dupree. No Country for Old Men. What do they all have in common? Like oh so many works of ...more »

Infidelity – An International Pastime

» by Elizabeth Black June 17th, 2008 at 11:24 am » Comments (0)

I have long been fascinated with affairs, ever since I was in college and I realized that some married men would screw anything female with legs, as long as the ...more »

The waning art of anticipation?

» by Kev Henley May 24th, 2008 at 12:11 pm » Comments (3)

Do you feel erotica readers these days like for a writer to “get to the point” when writing a sex scene, or do they like to be teased?   In most of ...more »

Writing as therapy

» by Rachelle LeMonnier May 14th, 2008 at 8:00 am » Comments (0)

My intention was to write something intelligent about…yes, you guessed it – writing! But then I started musing about my love-life instead. It only took a few minutes. Love-life? ...more »

Romance Readers are Pain Sluts

» by Selena Kitt May 2nd, 2008 at 12:01 am » Comments (12)

photo credit: verybigjen Sex sells. That's what all advertising teaches, right? And we see it, we're inundated with it, we know it. So you would think that sex would be primarily what ...more »