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» by Willsin Rowe March 7th, 2010 at 6:43 am » Comments (6)
Well, I’m still buzzing a little. Last night, Saturday 6th March 2010, I played the biggest gig of my miniscule musical career. I play bass in a swampy blues and roots ...more »Love…exciting and new…
» by Willsin Rowe February 21st, 2010 at 8:57 am » Comments (5)
So...is it just me, or do you all keep falling in love all over the place? Maybe workmates, maybe friends, maybe someone you walk past every day or even just ...more »What Converted this Valentine’s Day Resistor?
» by Giselle Renarde February 14th, 2010 at 1:09 pm » Comments (3)
I used to be as strong a V-Day resistor as I was a radical feminist. I thought it was a cruel pseudo-holiday (no, no, no…I didn’t say “cool super-holiday”) created ...more »Burn the Dictionary!
» by Giselle Renarde January 31st, 2010 at 5:24 pm » Comments (4)
*sigh* I just heard a news story about parents insisting their children's grade 4/5 teacher remove the dictionary from their classroom to prevent students from looking up inappropriate words. "Oral ...more »Please XXplain…
» by Willsin Rowe January 24th, 2010 at 9:58 am » Comments (2)
Over the past few years I’ve seen many calls for submission for works of both erotica and erotic romance. What has caught my eye lately has been the apparent increase ...more »Why I prefer buying online.
» by Wynter OReilly January 22nd, 2010 at 7:08 am » Comments (6)
Sunday the family and I went to our local Borders, as we walked around the store I realized why I like shopping online so much better. First I couldn’t find anything. ...more »Hallmark Censored my Damn e-Card!
» by Giselle Renarde January 17th, 2010 at 11:08 pm » Comments (0)
Because if there's one thing a pornographer loves, it's censorship.... I'm a tad peeved over here. Hallmark.com erased a message I wrote to my girlfriend the other day because of ...more »say it with me: “Yes”
» by Sommer Marsden January 14th, 2010 at 10:18 am » Comments (10)
I've fallen ass backwards into a few nice promo things this year. I get emails "how did you get here?" "how did you get there?" from other writers/new writers. The ...more »What Have You Done?
» by Giselle Renarde January 3rd, 2010 at 3:15 am » Comments (3)
Well, this is it. 2009 has smoothly transitioned into 2010. This is the time of year when we all ask ourselves, "Exactly what have I accomplished over the ...more »Sensuality and Erotica
» by Karina Rose December 28th, 2009 at 9:39 pm » Comments (4)
While it is difficult to have a sensual story without a bit of erotic involvement and vice versa, there is a fundamental difference between the two genres. Romantic stimulation seems ...more »EFFICIENCY
» by Willsin Rowe December 27th, 2009 at 2:07 am » Comments (2)
This modern world seems to be all about business. Whatever the business, the premier driving force is, apparently, efficiency. Fewer steps, greater output, faster travel. No-one is walking barefoot through ...more »What’s so offensive about two men and a dog?
» by Giselle Renarde December 20th, 2009 at 7:33 pm » Comments (2)
I want to show you something. It's a picture of two men and a dog: According to Canadian media outlets, this image sparked online outrage from the homophobic public. What's the ...more »I got nuthin’
» by Sommer Marsden December 17th, 2009 at 10:23 am » Comments (6)
It's kind of been a mindfark of a week here. Getting ready for Christmas, edits, sickness, shopping, running and general insanity. I really have nothing to blog other than HELP! ...more »Gender Agenda
» by Willsin Rowe December 13th, 2009 at 6:31 am » Comments (1)
I’ve heard a term several times in recent years which has perplexed me. It’s mainly been said by women, and, in my experience, mostly younger, more earnest women. The term ...more »I’ve “ad” it!
» by Willsin Rowe November 29th, 2009 at 10:53 pm » Comments (0)
Like many of you out there, I have a day job. My job is within the field of graphic design, though I’m more of a layout artist than anything. The ...more »Transgender Day of Remembrance
» by Giselle Renarde November 22nd, 2009 at 2:09 am » Comments (0)
Must remember. Can't forget. Must remember. Can't forget.As Transgender Awareness Week (November 15th-20th) recently drew to a close, we observed the 11th annual Transgender Day of Remembrance on November 20th, ...more »Why my Girlfriend Won’t Wear an Apron or Am I a Female Chauvinist Pig?
» by Giselle Renarde November 8th, 2009 at 8:34 pm » Comments (0)
Why my Girlfriend Won’t Wear an Apron or Am I a Female Chauvinist Pig? My Sweet and I are recovering from another little spat. I’m doing a bit of warehouse contract work ...more »Born too late…
» by Willsin Rowe October 31st, 2009 at 5:28 pm » Comments (6)
As I’ve grown older, I’ve begun to see my birth as kind of a fulcrum, or a pinion point. My body has moved forward in time, but my tastes have ...more »Happiness in Three Easy Steps
» by Giselle Renarde October 11th, 2009 at 10:19 pm » Comments (0)
I learn a lot from listening to the radio. Recently, I've heard a few of the hosts on CBC Radio 2 talking about a British researcher who's been studying....Happiness! ...more »I wanna be just like her
» by Emma Hillman October 6th, 2009 at 5:33 am » Comments (0)
I have a crush and no, it's not even a tall, dark-haired, green-eyed man for once. It's another author. I love, love, love Kristan Higgins' books. They're everything I'd like mine to ...more »ARE MENAGE ROMANCES HERE TO STAY?
» by Dee Dawning October 5th, 2009 at 8:28 am » Comments (2)
I posted this article on another blog last month and it was very popular so here it is again? Are Ménage Romances Books Here to Stay The latest hot genre in erotic ...more »Guts, balls or…
» by Willsin Rowe October 4th, 2009 at 2:45 pm » Comments (4)
I once read a discussion of the comparative merits of “guts” and “balls”. My dictionary would have me believe that to be gutsy is to be courageous; to be strong and ...more »A little variety, people!
» by Emma Hillman September 22nd, 2009 at 11:08 am » Comments (5)
I was browsing new titles on Amazon at lunchtime and realized I could just look at a title or cover to know what it was about. I know this 'code' ...more »Masturbastion!!
» by Wynter OReilly September 18th, 2009 at 10:28 am » Comments (10)
Bet I got your attention, huh? I'm going to talk about that dirty little secret, something most people do but don't want any one to know about. You know... playing ...more »My Grandma Knows All the Guys
» by Giselle Renarde September 13th, 2009 at 1:55 am » Comments (3)
The other day I was sitting in the car with my mother and my grandmother—three generations of women all in one Ford Taurus—when I pulled out a book to read. ...more »Does it really work?
» by Emma Hillman September 8th, 2009 at 3:01 pm » Comments (1)
Promo, I mean. You see, I'm a newbie at this. I've never had to actively look for readers before and I'm not entirely sure I like it. I understand the need ...more »Let’s Talk About Rejection, Baby!
» by Giselle Renarde August 30th, 2009 at 11:45 am » Comments (0)
Remember Salt n Pepa’s 1991 hit song Let’s Talk About Sex? It’s a blast from the past, I know. I was in the kitchen stirring up some grape jell-o just ...more »Everybody get MOIST!
» by Giselle Renarde August 16th, 2009 at 12:44 am » Comments (3)
How do you react when you hear the word moist? If it's anything like this guy, you're in the majority. You know how I'm a huge fan of CBC Radio Two? ...more »This Is Not What I Intended!
» by Dakota Trace August 1st, 2009 at 2:17 pm » Comments (5)
Have you ever set out to write something with one purpose in mind and had an entirely different result happen? When I started writing Nisey's Awakening, I had no other ...more »I’m the Nut
» by Giselle Renarde July 19th, 2009 at 11:42 am » Comments (1)
The other day, a girl I work with mentioned that she likes her boys a little girly. “Why don’t you just date girls, then?” I asked her, very nearly following it ...more »CISSEXUAL, are we? Keeping up with the Lingo…
» by Giselle Renarde July 5th, 2009 at 11:03 am » Comments (3)
This week, I was fortunate enough to attend a workshop intended for human services providers (more commonly known as social workers). The official workshop title was something along the lines of ...more »Bjork Hits People in Airports
» by Giselle Renarde June 7th, 2009 at 1:50 am » Comments (2)
This isn’t recent news, but apparently elfin Icelandic singer Bjork has whacked a few guys in airports over the years. The first such event occurred when a member of ...more »Paging Dr Jung
» by Giselle Renarde May 24th, 2009 at 5:32 pm » Comments (2)
If you are fluent in the language of Jungian psychology, you will recognize the term “animus complex.” It’s a fascinating enough theory that I will take a moment to explain ...more »No News is Trans News
» by Giselle Renarde May 10th, 2009 at 5:13 pm » Comments (0)
Yesterday, my girlfriend was telling me about an upcoming court case that’s currently the talk of the transgender community in St. Catherines, Ontario. According to Sweet (and if my girlfriend’s word ...more »Three R’s for the New Millennium
» by Giselle Renarde April 26th, 2009 at 5:37 pm » Comments (0)
As I walked to the subway this afternoon, I passed a couple dudes who obviously thought they were pretty cool. When they got out of their spic and span fancy ...more »What to say? What to say?
» by Emma Hillman April 21st, 2009 at 6:33 am » Comments (0)
My first book 'Location, Location, Location' is officially coming out on August 10. Yes! I'm very excited but there's just one thing that's making it a bit daunting: I have ...more »Over Forty and Over Men?
» by Dee Dawning April 6th, 2009 at 9:09 am » Comments (9)
Okay, Some of you may find this blog boring, however I find it infinitely interesting. Is their latent homosexuality in many straight women? I don’t know. It looks like there ...more »Thoughts on Transgender Fiction
» by Giselle Renarde March 15th, 2009 at 12:16 am » Comments (1)
Anyone who follows my blog is certainly familiar with my connection to the transgender community. You've probably been wondering, "Why doesn't Giselle have any TG work on the market?" ...more »Shopping vs. Sex?
» by Giselle Renarde January 18th, 2009 at 11:14 am » Comments (1)
photo credit: James@mannequindisplay.com I’m always hearing these ridiculous news items claiming that women prefer just about everything out there (chocolate, the internet, etc.) over sex. I don’t believe them ...more »Resolve
» by Giselle Renarde January 4th, 2009 at 1:32 am » Comments (2)
I don't make New Year's resolutions...should I? I could resolve to eat three meals a day, none of them take-out. I could resolve not to start so many silly arguments with my ...more »Freedom on my Mind
» by Giselle Renarde November 23rd, 2008 at 10:33 am » Comments (0)
Freedom has been on my mind this month. On Remembrance Day--Tuesday November 11th--I was sitting at my computer as 11am approached. Last Call played on the radio and I ...more »The ‘C’ word (not clitoris) for writers and readers.
» by Dee Dawning November 21st, 2008 at 8:18 am » Comments (29)
I want to hear from all of you on this. Since eXcessica is known for tackling Taboo issues head on, I want to tackle a taboo word, CUNT! Is it ...more »The Ex Files
» by EmeliaBell November 14th, 2008 at 4:27 am » Comments (0)
We all have them, even if we never talk about them. They’re the ones who’ve shaped us, emotionally and sexually, the ones who haunt us occasionally and pepper our thoughts ...more »I’ll be in the shower if you need me…
» by Sommer Marsden November 6th, 2008 at 12:21 am » Comments (3)
I hear a lot of writers talk about writer's block. Or struggling with plot glitches and/or working out the storyline kinks. I think they are either a) not walking enough, ...more »poverotica
» by Giselle Renarde October 26th, 2008 at 6:48 pm » Comments (0)
poverotica /pawvirottikaw/ (n) literature or art lending erotic qualities to the state of being extremely poor. As you might have guessed, there’s no such thing as poverotica. It’s a new addition ...more »Naughty or Nice?
» by Dakota Trace October 25th, 2008 at 6:05 pm » Comments (1)
Naughty or nice? I've noticed this question suggests that it is an either or answer. But I often wonder, can't a girl be both? Can a woman have both sides ...more »Ode to Mom
» by Giselle Renarde October 12th, 2008 at 12:25 am » Comments (1)
Here in Canada, we’re celebrating Thanksgiving this weekend. The holiday’s got me thinking about everything I have in life. I may not own half as much stuff as most North ...more »WAIT JUST A DAMN MINUTE
» by Dee Dawning October 10th, 2008 at 7:13 am » Comments (2)
WAIT JUST A DAMN MINUTE I’ve been hearing and reading rumblings a lot lately that writers and readers alike are sick of writing and reading books that contain so called ideal ...more »Hail the Autumnal Equinoxe
» by Vernon Welles October 2nd, 2008 at 1:25 am » Comments (0)
Is it Autumn already? I had so many things I wanted to do this Summer. Oh well. The leaves are already turning in the northern climes and the temperatures are moderating. ...more »Losing Friends
» by Giselle Renarde September 28th, 2008 at 11:11 pm » Comments (0)
My friend Monty is old and set in his ways, but that’s no excuse. For many years now, my friend Monty has been my comrade and confidant, but ever since I ...more »SUBSCRIBE
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