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» by Giselle Renarde August 29th, 2010 at 4:13 am » Comments (1)
Let's talk about sex in public. (Eep!) *Giselle scurries far, far away. Giselle peeks her head out, sighs, and then drags her feet back to the computer* Okay...I've written about ...more »Elle-ementary Decisions
» by Mia Natasha August 17th, 2010 at 11:15 am » Comments (0)
My cat dragged me out of bed this morning because he was hungry. He has tactics. First he just talks. He can say, "Myrwa, myrwa"," which can mean a lot ...more »Trust the Girl to Decorate
» by Giselle Renarde August 15th, 2010 at 2:20 am » Comments (0)
I've never been the most trusting person in the world. In fact, I'm one of those casually-paranoid people who figures everyone's out to get her in one way or ...more »Time and Family…
» by Willsin Rowe August 8th, 2010 at 9:11 am » Comments (8)
A month ago, I blogged about one of the variegated reasons why I don’t exactly churn out book after book. In that case, it was a discussion of trying to ...more »Emotional Safewords
» by Giselle Renarde August 1st, 2010 at 7:14 pm » Comments (2)
Love isn't easy. We all know that. In a committed relationship with a long-term partner, we know there are ups and downs. There are days when we're madly in ...more »Men for Cinderella Mia
» by Mia Natasha July 20th, 2010 at 1:17 am » Comments (2)
I only fuck attractive men. At one point I was a modelizer - male models. Then athletes with an accent on soccer players. I've never been with a man older ...more »A Bed of One’s Own (or A Room of One’s Onion)
» by Giselle Renarde July 18th, 2010 at 1:14 am » Comments (1)
Today I got back from two weeks away and GOD am I glad for the solitude! This past week, I vacationed with family. Siblings...parents...that sort of thing. You know ...more »Words About Music.
» by Willsin Rowe July 11th, 2010 at 8:08 am » Comments (12)
I’m not a particularly prolific writer. Or, perhaps more correctly, I’m not a particularly persistent writer. I have dozens of stories, short and long, which require not too much more ...more »LGBT YOUTHLINE and YOU
» by Giselle Renarde July 4th, 2010 at 12:21 am » Comments (0)
'Cause sometimes you just need someone to talk to. Those who've been following me for a while may recall that for the past couple years I've donated all my fourth quarter ...more »Freaky Deaky or Stop Watching Me!
» by Sommer Marsden July 1st, 2010 at 2:55 pm » Comments (3)
So raise your hand if you do horoscopes. Higher! Okay...got it. I do and I don't. I tend to take all soothsaying with a grain of salt but am overall a ...more »Do Lesbians Talk Dirty?
» by Giselle Renarde June 20th, 2010 at 5:22 pm » Comments (3)
I'm glowing. Okay, so, one thing led to another, and I spent the last hour in front of YouPorn with a vibe in one hand and a mouse in the other. ...more »Total. Mom. Blog
» by Sommer Marsden June 17th, 2010 at 8:03 am » Comments (2)
I got nothing. Sorry, it's true. This past week has been a flurry of insanity and it's not done yet. The end of school formal banquet/dance for the boy child ...more »Mysterious Ways
» by Mia Natasha June 8th, 2010 at 6:51 pm » Comments (0)
I wanted to buy a package of Sweet 'N Low. Okay, so big deal, I like two packets of the pink encased fake sugar in my morning coffee. I went ...more »The Joke That Started It All
» by Giselle Renarde June 6th, 2010 at 10:33 am » Comments (2)
When my girlfriend and I went out for Sunday brunch this weekend, I ordered something I'd never tried before--Eggs Benedict. "The first of my Audrey and Lawrence stories," I told her, ...more »Lady Sings the Birthday Blues
» by Mia Natasha May 24th, 2010 at 11:48 pm » Comments (2)
There are things I cannot do anymore. I can’t try out for American Idol or become Miss America. Too old. I know, can you believe it? I don’t feel older, ...more »What’s Your Crush Type?
» by Giselle Renarde May 23rd, 2010 at 10:09 am » Comments (2)
I used to know, but I don't anymore. Fifteen years ago I could predict exactly the type of person I would develop a crush on. I knew every last characteristic. ...more »God, I’m Getting Old!
» by Dakota Trace May 22nd, 2010 at 1:18 pm » Comments (3)
Now, I know I'm not a spring chicken anymore but I realized last night how old I actually am getting. I have three children with my oldest being fourteen. And ...more »Favourite bits…
» by Willsin Rowe May 16th, 2010 at 10:29 am » Comments (2)
As some of you out there would know, along with being a writer, I'm also a cover artist. In that capacity, I get to look at a lot of very ...more »For All Queer Daughters of Heterocentric Mothers
» by Giselle Renarde May 9th, 2010 at 12:38 am » Comments (3)
It's mother's day. I wish I had something uplifting to say about that. Last year I would have sung my mother's praises. I do love her, and she is ...more »Communication Skills
» by Willsin Rowe May 2nd, 2010 at 9:18 am » Comments (1)
Whether it’s advertising or even the news, lately I’ve noticed some real clankers happening in the media. Sometimes it’s a plain tautology. In a print ad for a prestige car ...more »The Color of Insomnia
» by Willsin Rowe April 18th, 2010 at 8:52 am » Comments (1)
My brain is sweatin' so much it's makin' a pool inside a my head, and it's washin' through places I don't want cleaned. It keeps me 'wake all afternoon with ...more »It’s Not a Secret Anymore
» by Giselle Renarde April 11th, 2010 at 12:10 am » Comments (4)
It's no secret: more and more of us girls identify as queer or bisexual. I know more than a couple women who are decidedly straight, ...more »Stocking Up…
» by Willsin Rowe April 8th, 2010 at 7:01 am » Comments (4)
I'm not sure I like this so-called "WordPress" any more. Perhaps we should rename it "Word Suppress". Knowing I'd be off the grid for nearly a week, I set this ...more »The Importance of Being Erotic
» by Giselle Renarde March 28th, 2010 at 2:02 am » Comments (0)
Today I've been thinking about the importance of...us! Authors of erotic fiction. Why do we do this? Is it important? Or is it fluff? Here's ...more »Words We Hate to Love
» by Giselle Renarde March 14th, 2010 at 3:00 am » Comments (5)
Are you like me? Before you say "Hell no!" and run away, let me explain. As a writer of erotic fiction, I'm constantly making word choices. That's true of ...more »My fake hometown…
» by Sommer Marsden March 11th, 2010 at 4:24 pm » Comments (1)
Today my mother took me to Cafe Hon for lunch. We ate in pink and white room full of teapots off of a table swathed in hot pink PVC. There ...more »Everything I Know About Composure I Learned From Iron Chef
» by Sommer Marsden February 25th, 2010 at 8:52 am » Comments (8)
I had a rough year last year as far as reviews. You'd expect me to follow that statement with "I got some terrible reviews". No. No, I did not. It ...more »Love…exciting and new…
» by Willsin Rowe February 21st, 2010 at 8:57 am » Comments (5)
So...is it just me, or do you all keep falling in love all over the place? Maybe workmates, maybe friends, maybe someone you walk past every day or even just ...more »The Pull of the Pen
» by Wynter OReilly February 19th, 2010 at 7:10 am » Comments (5)
For years I only wrote for myself and close friends. I never dreamed of really getting published, it was a fantasy that only happened to people who could afford agents ...more »What Converted this Valentine’s Day Resistor?
» by Giselle Renarde February 14th, 2010 at 1:09 pm » Comments (3)
I used to be as strong a V-Day resistor as I was a radical feminist. I thought it was a cruel pseudo-holiday (no, no, no…I didn’t say “cool super-holiday”) created ...more »Oylmpics and Valentine’s Day
» by Dakota Trace February 13th, 2010 at 12:59 pm » Comments (3)
So normally I blog about something to do with writing but this weekend, I don't foresee a lot of writing getting done. Yep it's that time of year again. Not ...more »Madness IS my method…
» by Willsin Rowe February 7th, 2010 at 8:00 am » Comments (6)
Lately I've been inspired to think about my method of writing (such as it is). This has come partly from our intriguing new friend here at eXcessica, Mia Natasha, and ...more »Burn the Dictionary!
» by Giselle Renarde January 31st, 2010 at 5:24 pm » Comments (4)
*sigh* I just heard a news story about parents insisting their children's grade 4/5 teacher remove the dictionary from their classroom to prevent students from looking up inappropriate words. "Oral ...more »Why I prefer buying online.
» by Wynter OReilly January 22nd, 2010 at 7:08 am » Comments (6)
Sunday the family and I went to our local Borders, as we walked around the store I realized why I like shopping online so much better. First I couldn’t find anything. ...more »Hallmark Censored my Damn e-Card!
» by Giselle Renarde January 17th, 2010 at 11:08 pm » Comments (0)
Because if there's one thing a pornographer loves, it's censorship.... I'm a tad peeved over here. Hallmark.com erased a message I wrote to my girlfriend the other day because of ...more »Five Reasons Why Sex Can Make You Healthier
» by Karina Rose January 12th, 2010 at 12:27 am » Comments (2)
Now we have all heard the saying before, “Sex is not just good, it is good for you!” Before, women and men alike have scoffed at the idea, but stop ...more »Books to the rescue…
» by Willsin Rowe January 10th, 2010 at 10:34 pm » Comments (1)
I’ve mentioned before that I simply love words. Words as individual creatures, words strung together in sentences, words spat out like bullets, words rolling down a hill until they’ve gathered ...more »What Have You Done?
» by Giselle Renarde January 3rd, 2010 at 3:15 am » Comments (3)
Well, this is it. 2009 has smoothly transitioned into 2010. This is the time of year when we all ask ourselves, "Exactly what have I accomplished over the ...more »A New Year and New Resolutions
» by Dakota Trace January 2nd, 2010 at 12:30 pm » Comments (4)
Happy New Year! It's hard to believe the new year is here and Christmas is finally over. I don't know about many of you but I was wondering at times ...more »EFFICIENCY
» by Willsin Rowe December 27th, 2009 at 2:07 am » Comments (2)
This modern world seems to be all about business. Whatever the business, the premier driving force is, apparently, efficiency. Fewer steps, greater output, faster travel. No-one is walking barefoot through ...more »What’s so offensive about two men and a dog?
» by Giselle Renarde December 20th, 2009 at 7:33 pm » Comments (2)
I want to show you something. It's a picture of two men and a dog: According to Canadian media outlets, this image sparked online outrage from the homophobic public. What's the ...more »I got nuthin’
» by Sommer Marsden December 17th, 2009 at 10:23 am » Comments (6)
It's kind of been a mindfark of a week here. Getting ready for Christmas, edits, sickness, shopping, running and general insanity. I really have nothing to blog other than HELP! ...more »30 – 4
» by Emma Hillman December 15th, 2009 at 7:35 am » Comments (1)
I'm turning 30 this Saturday. And I find myself in a somewhat reflective mood. Looking back over the past decade, I can safely say I've achieved what I'd set out ...more »The End is Near. Do it Now!
» by Giselle Renarde December 6th, 2009 at 1:58 am » Comments (0)
No, not the end of the world. The end of my "Support LGBT Youth" promotion. If you've managed not to hear about it yet, I'm giving all profits from ...more »I’ve “ad” it!
» by Willsin Rowe November 29th, 2009 at 10:53 pm » Comments (0)
Like many of you out there, I have a day job. My job is within the field of graphic design, though I’m more of a layout artist than anything. The ...more »Transgender Day of Remembrance
» by Giselle Renarde November 22nd, 2009 at 2:09 am » Comments (0)
Must remember. Can't forget. Must remember. Can't forget.As Transgender Awareness Week (November 15th-20th) recently drew to a close, we observed the 11th annual Transgender Day of Remembrance on November 20th, ...more »Writers Who Do It For Me
» by Sommer Marsden November 19th, 2009 at 9:56 am » Comments (9)
That sounds dirty, doesn't it? :) As the holidays approach, it gets harder and harder for me to decompress in the evening. The crazy pace of my life (self-inflicted 99% ...more »Why my Girlfriend Won’t Wear an Apron or Am I a Female Chauvinist Pig?
» by Giselle Renarde November 8th, 2009 at 8:34 pm » Comments (0)
Why my Girlfriend Won’t Wear an Apron or Am I a Female Chauvinist Pig? My Sweet and I are recovering from another little spat. I’m doing a bit of warehouse contract work ...more »Born too late…
» by Willsin Rowe October 31st, 2009 at 5:28 pm » Comments (6)
As I’ve grown older, I’ve begun to see my birth as kind of a fulcrum, or a pinion point. My body has moved forward in time, but my tastes have ...more »Lesbian Vampire Knife Play, Anyone?
» by Giselle Renarde October 25th, 2009 at 1:13 am » Comments (4)
Hi Kittens! Oysters & Chocolate recently held a contest called "Vampire Lust." Guess what? My F/F story "Blood Lust" received an Honorable Mention! Pretty good, considering I'd never written anything vampire-related ...more »SUBSCRIBE
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