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» by Giselle Renarde July 18th, 2010 at 1:14 am » Comments (1)
Today I got back from two weeks away and GOD am I glad for the solitude! This past week, I vacationed with family. Siblings...parents...that sort of thing. You know ...more »To tell, or not to tell? That is the question…
» by Madeleine Drake July 9th, 2010 at 3:36 pm » Comments (4)
When my debut story, Blood Hero, was accepted by Selena, I was so happy, I wanted to tell the world. I emailed my critique partners. I called my husband at ...more »For All Queer Daughters of Heterocentric Mothers
» by Giselle Renarde May 9th, 2010 at 12:38 am » Comments (3)
It's mother's day. I wish I had something uplifting to say about that. Last year I would have sung my mother's praises. I do love her, and she is ...more »What Converted this Valentine’s Day Resistor?
» by Giselle Renarde February 14th, 2010 at 1:09 pm » Comments (3)
I used to be as strong a V-Day resistor as I was a radical feminist. I thought it was a cruel pseudo-holiday (no, no, no…I didn’t say “cool super-holiday”) created ...more »Please XXplain…
» by Willsin Rowe January 24th, 2010 at 9:58 am » Comments (2)
Over the past few years I’ve seen many calls for submission for works of both erotica and erotic romance. What has caught my eye lately has been the apparent increase ...more »Gender Agenda
» by Willsin Rowe December 13th, 2009 at 6:31 am » Comments (1)
I’ve heard a term several times in recent years which has perplexed me. It’s mainly been said by women, and, in my experience, mostly younger, more earnest women. The term ...more »Why my Girlfriend Won’t Wear an Apron or Am I a Female Chauvinist Pig?
» by Giselle Renarde November 8th, 2009 at 8:34 pm » Comments (0)
Why my Girlfriend Won’t Wear an Apron or Am I a Female Chauvinist Pig? My Sweet and I are recovering from another little spat. I’m doing a bit of warehouse contract work ...more »ORGASMS! To Know Them is to Love Them
» by Dee Dawning November 2nd, 2009 at 3:19 pm » Comments (8)
Orgasm. I love that word. You should too. After all it feels fantastic. Doesn’t it? What do we know about orgasms? Not a lot. We know it makes us feel ...more »ARE MENAGE ROMANCES HERE TO STAY?
» by Dee Dawning October 5th, 2009 at 8:28 am » Comments (2)
I posted this article on another blog last month and it was very popular so here it is again? Are Ménage Romances Books Here to Stay The latest hot genre in erotic ...more »My Grandma Knows All the Guys
» by Giselle Renarde September 13th, 2009 at 1:55 am » Comments (3)
The other day I was sitting in the car with my mother and my grandmother—three generations of women all in one Ford Taurus—when I pulled out a book to read. ...more »My Sexy Meeting with Diana Ross
» by Dee Dawning September 7th, 2009 at 7:35 am » Comments (8)
It's the ninth of the month, my day to blog and I don't have a thing ready. I know. I'll write about the time I met Diana Ross. You ...more »ROMANCE NOVELS AND YOUR SEX DRIVE
» by Dee Dawning August 3rd, 2009 at 6:48 am » Comments (0)
Today I’m going to talk about one of my favorite subjects—SEX! And what should be one of your favorite subjects—your SEX life! Do you consider your sex life normal? What is ...more »A Fisting Good Time!
» by Giselle Renarde June 21st, 2009 at 5:29 pm » Comments (0)
I never thought we’d make it to the knuckles. But, then again, I never thought we’d try. I made the mistake of letting my girlfriend Sweet read a fisting story I wrote ...more »Price of Honor: Muslim Women Lift the Veil of Silence on the Islamic World
» by Dee Dawning June 1st, 2009 at 8:40 am » Comments (3)
I have been so bogged down in edits on my latest book that I haven't had time to write a new blog. Therefore I have dug into my archives for ...more »Are women becoming more promiscuous?
» by Dee Dawning May 4th, 2009 at 6:51 am » Comments (0)
Promiscuity in women Is the age of promiscuity in women upon us? Articles I’ve read recently indicate a shift in women’s values may be taking place allowing for more freedom of ...more »Over Forty and Over Men?
» by Dee Dawning April 6th, 2009 at 9:09 am » Comments (9)
Okay, Some of you may find this blog boring, however I find it infinitely interesting. Is their latent homosexuality in many straight women? I don’t know. It looks like there ...more »Thoughts on Transgender Fiction
» by Giselle Renarde March 15th, 2009 at 12:16 am » Comments (1)
Anyone who follows my blog is certainly familiar with my connection to the transgender community. You've probably been wondering, "Why doesn't Giselle have any TG work on the market?" ...more »Are Women Feeling Sexier Than Ever and Doing Something About it?
» by Dee Dawning January 30th, 2009 at 7:57 am » Comments (3)
As a male author of numerous erotic and erotic romance books, I keep a lookout for interesting articles about women’s and to a lesser degree, men’s sexuality. Today, I’m ...more »Shopping vs. Sex?
» by Giselle Renarde January 18th, 2009 at 11:14 am » Comments (1)
photo credit: James@mannequindisplay.com I’m always hearing these ridiculous news items claiming that women prefer just about everything out there (chocolate, the internet, etc.) over sex. I don’t believe them ...more »Anal Sex and Double Penetration
» by Dee Dawning December 19th, 2008 at 7:32 am » Comments (5)
Anal Sex and Double Penetration In November I blogged about the popularity of menage a trios’. No, not about the act itself, but about the popularity of the act in ...more »Menage. Is this your fantasy?
» by Dee Dawning December 5th, 2008 at 9:16 am » Comments (6)
The ménage a trois has been the subject of previous blogs here, but considering it is the hottest thing in erotic writing today, I'm going to talk about it. ...more »Freedom on my Mind
» by Giselle Renarde November 23rd, 2008 at 10:33 am » Comments (0)
Freedom has been on my mind this month. On Remembrance Day--Tuesday November 11th--I was sitting at my computer as 11am approached. Last Call played on the radio and I ...more »The ‘C’ word (not clitoris) for writers and readers.
» by Dee Dawning November 21st, 2008 at 8:18 am » Comments (29)
I want to hear from all of you on this. Since eXcessica is known for tackling Taboo issues head on, I want to tackle a taboo word, CUNT! Is it ...more »How can erotica support LGBT youth?
» by Giselle Renarde November 9th, 2008 at 1:41 am » Comments (0)
How can erotica support LGBT youth? To celebrate the re-release of my debut e-book THE BIRTHDAY GIFT, I would like to offer up a gift we can all take part in ...more »poverotica
» by Giselle Renarde October 26th, 2008 at 6:48 pm » Comments (0)
poverotica /pawvirottikaw/ (n) literature or art lending erotic qualities to the state of being extremely poor. As you might have guessed, there’s no such thing as poverotica. It’s a new addition ...more »‘WHENEVER I WANT YOU, ALL I HAVE TO DO IS DREAM’
» by Dee Dawning October 24th, 2008 at 10:00 am » Comments (0)
I'm sure that many if not most of you are not familiar with the lyrics I used from am old 1950's Everly Brothers song for my title, but it sure ...more »Ode to Mom
» by Giselle Renarde October 12th, 2008 at 12:25 am » Comments (1)
Here in Canada, we’re celebrating Thanksgiving this weekend. The holiday’s got me thinking about everything I have in life. I may not own half as much stuff as most North ...more »Losing Friends
» by Giselle Renarde September 28th, 2008 at 11:11 pm » Comments (0)
My friend Monty is old and set in his ways, but that’s no excuse. For many years now, my friend Monty has been my comrade and confidant, but ever since I ...more »Searching For the Big Bamboo
» by Dee Dawning September 26th, 2008 at 8:06 am » Comments (0)
On the sea they’re euphemistically called intimate or clothing optional cruises and one even boldly named theirs, Swinger’s Cruise. On land they’re called, adult or erotic resorts. A few are ...more »Stop Saying Sorry
» by Giselle Renarde September 14th, 2008 at 6:13 pm » Comments (0)
We have this bizarre custom here in Canada: If somebody pushes you, shoves you, steps on your toes, YOU say sorry. Whether it’s an accident or an act of deliberate ...more »ARE YOU BI-CURIOUS?
» by Dee Dawning September 12th, 2008 at 3:23 pm » Comments (6)
Bi-Curious Have you ever heard the term Bi-Curious? Do you know what it means? I have come across this term three or four times in the last few weeks. I all cases ...more »These are Real: Practical Applications of Recent Discoveries in Neural Plasticity
» by Giselle Renarde August 31st, 2008 at 10:30 am » Comments (0)
I have formulated a scientific hypothesis. Put on your thinking caps and don’t doze off, because after the academic stuff I’ll be talking about boobs. One day I was watching ...more »Boys Are Pretty, Too
» by Varian Krylov July 22nd, 2008 at 11:19 pm » Comments (1)
I have this mantra: boys are pretty, too. Everywhere I turn, hour by hour, I see images of gorgeous women. Billboards hawking beer, perfume and engagement rings; fliers pasted on telephone ...more »Review: Swingtown
» by Elizabeth Black July 15th, 2008 at 10:10 am » Comments (2)
When I saw the commercials about "Swingtown", I knew I had to see it. The Washington Post has covered the show. The show is set in an American suburb in ...more »With Art Comes Responsibility
» by Giselle Renarde July 13th, 2008 at 2:45 am » Comments (1)
Joni Mitchell got me thinking. It takes more than the usual Swan Lake slippers and tutus to get me to the ballet. I don’t understand narrative in motion. I need ...more »And Here’s to You, Mrs. Robinson
» by Varian Krylov June 24th, 2008 at 5:15 pm » Comments (2)
The Illusionist. The Heartbreak Kid. The Band's Visit. Sideways. You, Me and Dupree. No Country for Old Men. What do they all have in common? Like oh so many works of ...more »Ceci n’est pas du porn
» by Giselle Renarde June 22nd, 2008 at 6:49 pm » Comments (1)
“You’re such a contradiction,” my client told me as we ‘did’ lunch the other day. “Really?” “Of course! You’re a porn-writing opera-loving radical feminist Leonard Cohen fan.” “Yeah… so?” In my mind, those elements ...more »SUBSCRIBE
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