I asked some of my online friends, yesterday, what they do when they’re having a bad time. “Have an orgasm” seemed to be the mot unusual and yet – most popular response. I was surprised. When I’m having a bad time of things I comfort eat and watch rom-com films over and over: pretty much the very last thing I want to do is get involved in any sexual activity.
Apparently that’s the main difference between male and female sexuality – the fact that women need their head to be in the right place before their body will follow the lead, but many of the people who suggested an orgasm as the best cure for misery were women. Perhaps there’s just something wrong with me…?
Anyway, a new day has dawned, I still feel a bit glum, only I’ve eaten all my chocolate brownies now, I haven’t got any unwatched DVDs left and I need a cure, or at least ome comfort. Perhaps I’d better go back to bed…
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I am not surprised that is what quite a few women said. It works for me and is easier on my waistline. I, too, am a comfort eater and when I went on the weightwatchers diet I couldn’t do that anymore and hey, lets face it there are only so many celery sticks and popcorn one can eat.
Instead now, I just build an erotic fantasy in my head and let nature take it’s course. It helps relieve the stress and then I can tackle the problem with a bit more optimism.
I’m more of a eater. I love food like pasta or sweets (I mean anything chocolate). I read alot and masturebating is good once in a while you just don’t want to make your self sore.